NEW YORK, NY.- Being a famous artists spouse is not easy. Being a famous persons surviving spouse might be even tougher. That is the plight of Terry, whose husband, Jeffrey, an artist, died as a result of a car crash. Terry, a novelist who put his own creative aspirations on hold when Jeffrey made it big, is confronting an issue many women in straight relationships have long endured: I was defined by the man I married, Terry says. And now, suddenly, for the first time, Im just
Mr. Parker. And I dont know how to do that.
Michael McKeevers Mr. Parker, which just opened on Theater Row, begins seven months after Jeffreys death, and Terry (Derek Smith) is still trying to find himself. A good start will be to date again, or at least to pick up a stranger baby steps.
Thats how Terry finds himself in his husbands work studio which feels less emotionally fraught than their apartment on a hung-over postcoital morning. He cant quite remember the guys name: Kevin, maybe? Actually, its Justin (Davi Santos), an easygoing, doe-eyed bartender-slash-Uber driver who is 28 to Terrys 54.
All in all, it looks like Terry was lucky with his rebound. Justin seems sweet and considerate, if overly chatty. I am a walking encyclopedia of worthless Manhattan trivia, he informs Terry, adding, People either love it or hate it, as if the ability to spout factoids were a highly contentious trait.
McKeevers previous off-Broadway shows, After and Daniels Husband, bore in on large societal subjects (gun violence, gay marriage) with a fairly heavy hand. That touch is in evidence here, too: As if losing a husband werent awful enough, Terry was at the wheel at the time of the accident. And then a few days later he had to agree to let the doctors turn off the machines keeping Jeffrey alive.
Perhaps this is why the show, a Penguin Rep Theater production directed by Joe Brancato, is at its best in the lighter-toned scenes depicting Terry and Justins getting-to-know-you phase. McKeever and Brancato stick with a naturalistic, matter-of-fact plainness that does not shy from the benefits each man derives from the relationship: Justin has found a wealthy guy who pays for everything, while Terry gets to spend quality time with a hunky youth. Still, one wishes that the age difference were evoked in less simplistic brushstrokes. Justin has to explain to Terry that vinyl is cool but CDs are not. Terry complains that Justin spends too much time on his phone. Youd think Terry was a 90-year-old relic who had spent decades under a rock, not a man in his early 50s who used to be married to a hotshot artist and must have been exposed to technological and sociological changes.
In any case, Terry has a living, breathing reminder of his inadequacies in Jeffreys sister, the brittle Cassandra (Mia Matthews), who is casually dismissive of Justin and tries to get the distraught Terry to be more proactive in his management of the imposing estate he now oversees.
But Terry has spent decades in a famous mans shadow and has forgotten how to make decisions for himself. Grief only compounds his stasis: He holds onto his old answering machine because it contains a saved message from Jeffrey, and endlessly postpones talking to a Whitney Museum curator who wants to organize a retrospective.
Mr. Parker is not the kind of play that springs surprises on the audience, so its denouement is entirely predictable. And that is perhaps the shows biggest asset: Real life can be ho-hum, too. One day you cant move on, and the next, you can.
Event Information:
Mr. ParkerThrough June 25 at Theater Row, Manhattan; bfany.org. Running time: 1 hour 30 minutes.
This article originally appeared in
The New York Times.