NEW YORK, NY.- In the days after OShae Sibley, a Black gay man, was killed during an altercation outside a gas station in the Midwood neighborhood of Brooklyn, New York, the picture that emerged suggested an explosive combination of homophobia, religious intolerance and racism.
A witness said a group of men that included the teenager charged in the killing used homophobic slurs and told Sibley that they were Muslim, and he should stop dancing. Some initial media reports picked up that account. Mayor Eric Adams and the police held a news conference at which the mayor stressed that the killing was not evidence of Muslim hatred of gay people.
Now, it appears the man charged with Sibleys murder is not Muslim at all. The suspect, Dmitry Popov, 17, is Christian, his lawyer said, altering at least one aspect of the narrative about a killing that has drawn national attention.
Sibleys death had raised concerns about how the charged accusations could hurt relations between two marginalized communities, gay people and Muslims. In fact, the two groups stood together.
At the news conference Saturday, Adams, joined by leaders from the citys gay and Muslim communities, said that both LGBTQ+ people and Muslims have been victims of hate and the two communities stand united against fighting any form of hate in this city.
Sibley, a dancer and choreographer, was returning from New Jersey to his home in Brooklyn on the evening of July 29 when he and his four friends stopped at the gas station, the police said. As the men filled up their car, they played music by Beyoncé and danced, and a group of men approached and told them to stop.
The men yelled homophobic slurs and anti-Black statements at Sibley and his friends, according to Joseph Kenny, an assistant chief at the Police Departments detective bureau, at a news conference Saturday.
Summy Ullah, a 32-year-old gas station attendant who witnessed the encounter, said one of the young men said, Im Muslim. I dont want this here.
Within minutes, the heated verbal altercation had turned violent, according to the police. Sibley was stabbed once in the chest, Kenny said. He was taken to Maimonides Medical Center, where he was pronounced dead.
Popov, 17, a high school student from Brooklyn, turned himself in last Friday and was charged with second-degree murder, second-degree murder as a hate crime and criminal possession of a weapon. He was denied bail in state Supreme Court in Brooklyn on Monday and is being held in detention.
Court documents said that a witness heard the group with Popov say, Stop dancing here, we are Muslim.
But at the court hearing and in an interview Tuesday, Popovs lawyer, Mark Henry Pollard, pushed back against some of the initial narrative: Popov is not Muslim, Pollard said.
Hes Christian, he said in a phone interview. Somehow they got it confused; hes not a Muslim. I could understand if there were other friends that were, but he was the only person arrested.
Right after Sibley was stabbed, Ullah tried to chase down the attacker.
Im Muslim myself, said Ullah, who immigrated from Pakistan. When I saw them dancing, I was laughing, too, but I wasnt making fun of them. Everyone has their own perspective, gay, transgender. We have gay people in our countries as well. You dont make fun of them. They dont say anything to you. They arent making fun of you.
Sayeda Haider, 23, arrived at the gas station shortly after the stabbing and found Sibleys friends weeping. She comforted them and told them she hoped their friends killer would be caught. Days later, Haider, who is Muslim, said she had reflected on the possibility that someone used her religion to justify an act of violence.
It cant be because of religion, because we dance, she said. We are strict, but well dance at parties.
In Islam, as in many religions, there are extremists who reject LGBTQ+ people, she said, but she said that she had been raised to let people live their lives as they choose.
We also came here because of freedom, because of the rights, so let other people have their rights, too, she said.
Soniya Ali, executive director of the Muslim Community Center, who also spoke at the news conference Saturday, said its not a surprise or a shock that the narrative that the person who killed Sibley was Muslim spread in the media. Ali said she had neither experienced or witnessed any backlash from the gay community since Sibleys killing.
She said she spoke Saturday to show support for the LGBTQ+ community in New York City, who she said were the first ones to reach out after former President Donald Trump instituted a travel ban soon after taking office barring visitors from six predominantly Muslim countries from entering the United States.
Whats important now, she said, is making sure that the focus remains on the tragedy of Sibleys senseless murder.
He was murdered. It was a hate crime, she said. Thats the gist of it.
For Beckenbaur Hamilton, 51, a neighbor and friend of Sibley, the attackers religion is not important.
That part isnt even relevant, said Hamilton, who is gay. It doesnt matter if he is Christian, Muslim, Jewish. If a person takes a persons life he should be held accountable.
This article originally appeared in
The New York Times.