NEW YORK, NY.- When the ground began to shake, rocking her bed to-and-fro like a raft in a current, Temilade Openiyi briefly wondered if she was dreaming. It was a bright April morning and she was still jet lagged from a flight 12 hours from Lagos, Nigeria, to New York. It seemed unlikely that her hotel could actually be vibrating. And yet there she was, eyes wide open, bobbing along with everything else in the room.
Openiyi, better known as Tems, had stopped on the East Coast on her way to Los Angeles, where she would soon begin rehearsals for her debut appearance at the Coachella music festival. It would be one in a swiftly multiplying series of firsts for the singer, songwriter and producer, whose music slides between R&B, pop and Afrobeats: her first album, Born in the Wild, due June 7 from RCA; its first single, the blissful party starter Love Me JeJe; her first headlining world tour, kicking off June 11. As far as milestones are concerned, a first earthquake was just another line in the tally.
Tems, a faithful Christian, believes none of it has been in her control. When the earthquake subsided (magnitude 4.8), she said a prayer thanking God for granting her another day.
You can be planning your whole life and then something happens and its just done, she said dryly, in an interview later that day. You can control what you do, but you cant control how life lifes.
It would be easy to attribute Tems vertiginous career trajectory to divine intervention. Since her appearance on Afrobeats star Wizkids summer-conquering single Essence in 2020, she has become the first African artist to debut at No. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 (via Wait for U, a Future song also featuring Drake); won a Grammy for best melodic rap performance; and been nominated for an Oscar, for Lift Me Up, a song from the Black Panther: Wakanda Forever soundtrack that she co-wrote for Rihanna after the singer messaged her on Instagram saying she was obsessed. In 2022, Tems was a writer and performer on Move also featuring Grace Jones from Beyoncés Renaissance, confirming her status as one of the most in-demand and closely watched young artists in the world.
At a tea parlor in the West Village neighborhood of Manhattan, Tems, 28, sat at the bar, fiddling with a miniature hourglass. She was dressed in goth casual with glamorous accents: an oversize black hoodie with the hood up, carnivorous nails and a Swarovski ring with a crystal the size of a stalagmite. An assortment of fine green teas from Japan was arrayed before her (This one was invented on our farm in 1800, a server said), but she longed for her own homemade blend, which she makes from leaves she gets at a market near her house in London.
When you take a sip, your eyes dilate, she said.
Tems journey to the verge of stardom built slowly before erupting all at once. Born and raised mostly in Lagos, she grew up enchanted by the R&B powerhouses of the 1990s, including Destinys Child, Mariah Carey and Celine Dion. She didnt speak until she was 3, and was an often solitary child who attracted the attention of bullies. Music, which first captured her imagination via pirated CDs from her brothers friends, became an early means of escape. She joined the choir in school, wrote her own songs and forced her friends to sing them, she said. But she never had a specific vision of a career as an artist.
I used to say I wanted to be an architect, but I only said that because it seems smart, she said. When you say architect as a child, everyone is like, Hmmm. You have your head around your shoulders.
It wasnt until college that she got serious about music. Between economics classes at Monash University College in Johannesburg (she went against her will, she said, at the behest of her mother, a physician), Tems taught herself to produce her own songs by watching videos on YouTube. After graduating, she worked briefly in digital marketing before taking the leap to pursue music full time.
I just thought, This is what Im actually gifted at, she said. I should do something that comes naturally to me rather than trying to force it.
Among the earliest songs that she produced was Try Me in 2019, a soaring testament to resilience in the face of opposition that contains many Tems hallmarks: lyrics about burning, a protagonist engaged in a righteous struggle and a go-for-broke vocal performance that bends from yearning to fury and back.
It became an anthem in Nigeria very quickly, said Wale Davies, Tems co-manager, who began working with her shortly before Try Me. After that song, we would do a show and people would be chasing after her car.
The video for Try Me, in which Tems mugs fiercely at the camera while surrounded by regal escorts, was a fixture on Nigerian music television and has more than 18 million views on YouTube. After hearing the song, Wizkid invited her, through a manager, to a recording session for his album Made in Lagos. Tems chose the Essence instrumental and started freestyling over it, singing about a love affair that defies understanding: I need to give it all/I tried to leave but I cant/I dont know why youre the one/turn me out of my mind.
There are certain beats that make you feel something, and Im always looking for that feeling, she said. When I heard the Essence beat, I was immediately like, Yeah, this is the one.
In the fall of 2020, shortly before the song came out and became a global sensation (with a boost later on from a Justin Bieber remix), Tems released her debut EP, For Broken Ears. It featured Free Mind, a hypnotic slow jam that hit No. 1 on hip-hop and R&B radio, and Higher, which became the basis of Futures Wait for U. Around the same time, a representative for Beyoncé invited her to Los Angeles to contribute to what eventually became Move.
My team just messaged me like, Yo, first of all, I have to send you something to sign, she said, referring to a nondisclosure agreement. I was losing my mind. Like, What?!
AT THE TEA PARLOR, the sounds of a breezy jazz trio emanated from the speakers. Tems swayed back and forth, trying to find a groove, then improvised a leisurely melody and some lyrics.
An earthquake/in New York/Somewhere down the street/One day/An earthquake/made us drink tea, she sang.
That was a trashy example, Tems said and laughed, assessing her performance with a more colorful word. I have to feel it enough to move. Then I allow myself to sing whatever comes out.
Tems writes most of her songs this way: A beat or piece of music inspires a feeling, which she channels into a melody and a few words of gibberish. Lyrics come last. Her phones voice memos app is filled with thousands of such freestyles and fragments, a small fraction of which will eventually become finished songs.
The way Tems describes it, she is almost a passive participant in this process a mere radio in search of a preexisting frequency. I just have a sensation, I have signals, she said. Youre just the vessel, its just coming out of your mouth.
Occasionally, the signal cuts out and songs can be lost or abandoned. Born in the Wild, the title track for her new album, began more than five years ago as a freestyle that she neglected to record and forgot. (It came back to her last year while she was trying to write something else.)
But when it works, the result can be bottled lightning. Love Me JeJe was born from an impromptu freestyle session with girlfriends after a night of dinner and drinks in London. When Tems played the songs effervescent instrumental at a studio she rents near Notting Hill, one of her friends sang the lyrics love me jeje/love me tender, quoting the hit song of the same name from 1997 by Afropop artist Seyi Sodimu. The finished track opens with a recording from that night of the friend asking Tems when to sing.
It was just a state of bliss, Tems said. Those are the moments that I love.
The past few years have had their share of darker moments, as well. Tems hoped to release her debut album in 2021, around the time she put out her second EP, If Orange Was a Place. But a serious illness (she declined to specify) forced her into surgery and six months of recovery. Fighting her way back to health partly inspired her new music, which she said was about embracing life as a warrior.
Being a warrior is about not giving up, she said. Even if they cut your leg, you walk on your knees, you fight on your knees using what you have and thats good enough.
If Tems is a humble vessel at the start of her creative process, she transforms into an obsessive sculptor at the end. She is known to lock herself alone in her studio with tea, candles and incense for days at a time, adding elements to a draft of a song and excising others until it aligns perfectly with what she hears in her head. Her music is an effort to reconcile the opposing themes of her life: willfulness and submission, control and freedom, tension and release.
Guiltybeatz, a producer of Love Me JeJe and a frequent Tems collaborator, said her goal with a song is to achieve a kind of platonic state in which she can listen to it endlessly without losing enthusiasm.
We want to live with this music forever, he said. Until we get to that point where we feel like well never get tired of it, we keep working.
Tems cited two other singers known for their foresight and creative discipline as inspirations for her own debut: Lauryn Hill and Sade. Both artists, she said, managed to achieve critical and commercial dominance without compromising their integrity.
Success, for her, would mean maintaining a similarly solid foundation, the kind that can withstand a few unexpected shakes.
You can have the biggest hits and people still may not receive you in the way that you want them to, she said. Its not about what you do, its who you are.
This article originally appeared in
The New York Times.